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I Stopped Trying to Convince People to Love Me
One thing I’ve struggled with deeply over the years is the idea of honoring your parents. I took that seriously. Still do. My mother and I have absolutely gone through our ups and downs over the years, but I’ve always tried to honor her and not disrespect her. And I tried to do the same… Continue reading
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Not Everybody Deserves Access to You
As I’ve gotten older, I’ve become a lot more aware of energy. Or maybe a better word is vibes. People carry different vibes. Some people walk into a room and immediately bring calmness with them.You exhale around them without even realizing it. And then there are people whose energy feels chaotic from the moment they… Continue reading
About Me
Hi, I’m Anjj.
I’m a six-time breast cancer survivor, writer, traveler, healer, and woman learning to live life out loud—scars, softness, and all.
I started this blog to share the raw, unfiltered parts of my journey: the diagnosis, the depression, the days I didn’t want to get out of bed… and the days I did. You’ll find stories about mental health, healing with humor, spiritual growth, and sometimes, what I’m eating on the road.
This is a space for people who are figuring out life after.
After trauma. After loss. After the breakdown.
If you’re rebuilding, rediscovering, or just trying to make peace with your new normal—you’re not alone here.
So welcome.
Grab some tea, breathe deep, and stay awhile.
The Rantings & Ravings of a Cancer Patient 