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The Version of Me I’m Learning to Love
For a long time, I thought self-love was something you arrived at once you “fixed” everything. Once you healed enough.Once you were strong again.Once life looked recognizable. What I didn’t realize back then was that I wasn’t failing at loving myself—I was struggling to let go of a version of me that no longer existed. Continue reading
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Living Without the Timeline
At some point, I realized that one of the quietest sources of pressure in my life wasn’t other people—it was the invisible timeline I kept measuring myself against. After my diagnosis, that timeline became brutal. I wasn’t working.I was sick, weak, and exhausted.I had no goals, no intentions, no sense of forward momentum—just doctors’ appointments, Continue reading
About Me
Hi, I’m Anjj.
I’m a six-time breast cancer survivor, writer, traveler, healer, and woman learning to live life out loud—scars, softness, and all.
I started this blog to share the raw, unfiltered parts of my journey: the diagnosis, the depression, the days I didn’t want to get out of bed… and the days I did. You’ll find stories about mental health, healing with humor, spiritual growth, and sometimes, what I’m eating on the road.
This is a space for people who are figuring out life after.
After trauma. After loss. After the breakdown.
If you’re rebuilding, rediscovering, or just trying to make peace with your new normal—you’re not alone here.
So welcome.
Grab some tea, breathe deep, and stay awhile.
The Rantings & Ravings of a Cancer Patient 