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Learning to Love the Mirror Again
To be honest? Most days when I look in the mirror,I hate what I see. I love what’s inside—my strength, my will to keep going, the fact that my immune system is working overtime and doing a damn good job.But the outside?The reflection staring back at me?It doesn’t feel like me. I miss the old Continue reading
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Spring Cleaning the Soul: What I’m Letting Go Of
It’s spring—the season of deep cleaning, opening windows, and throwing out things that don’t fit anymore.And this year?I’m not just cleaning closets. I’m cleaning out my soul. There are things I’ve been carrying for too long. Expectations, guilt, pressure, sadness that’s been shoved in corners and covered with a smile. I’m done pretending everything is Continue reading
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I Cursed You. I Blamed You. But You Carried Me Through
Dear Body, I felt betrayed… again.I took good care of you. I never did drugs, I didn’t run you down, I didn’t eat sweets, but you still let me down. Yeah, I was working hard at the cake shop, but not hard enough for you to throw up your hands and let cancer seep in… Continue reading
About Me
Hi, I’m Anjj.
I’m a six-time breast cancer survivor, writer, traveler, healer, and woman learning to live life out loud—scars, softness, and all.
I started this blog to share the raw, unfiltered parts of my journey: the diagnosis, the depression, the days I didn’t want to get out of bed… and the days I did. You’ll find stories about mental health, healing with humor, spiritual growth, and sometimes, what I’m eating on the road.
This is a space for people who are figuring out life after.
After trauma. After loss. After the breakdown.
If you’re rebuilding, rediscovering, or just trying to make peace with your new normal—you’re not alone here.
So welcome.
Grab some tea, breathe deep, and stay awhile.
The Rantings & Ravings of a Cancer Patient 